It's an obvious misnomer to believe that all men think about every day or all the time is sex. The fact is a man's mind is usually filled with the daily issues of finances, politics, sports especially if their favorite team is losing-and sex.
Women, this is a prime opportunity to get and hold his attention-literally. Giving a guy a hand job is good. Giving him a better orgasm with a little mouth action is even better.
So here are a few techniques to blow?his mind and take him to the peak of ecstasy with an even better orgasm.
As women we are definitely masters at creating a romantic atmosphere. So here are some more ideas on getting the timing right and setting the mood using a few good skills and techniques that will drive your man to a better orgasm. So get ready, be open-minded and add your own creative touches as you surprise him with a better orgasm.
Start by providing scent-ual stimulations. Place his favorite scent between your breast and any other place he likes to nibble. Next, wear sheer lingerie. There's something about sheer lingerie that stimulates the imagination-send his mind into overdrive.
Undress him and bring him to the edge of a better orgasm by giving him a sensual massage. Use edible oils to lick your way over his body. By the time you're done, he'll be begging for you to ride him. But, remember this is his time to have a mind blowing orgasm. Resist the urge to climb on for a wild ride. Now, choose a unique location such as a sturdy chair, have your sensory stimulating toys and edible oils nearby.
Ladies its time to enjoy your treat! Imagine eating an ice cream cone-the licking, sucking and satisfying sounds that you make. Take his erection in hand and lick your way up from the base of penis to the crown. Pay special attention to the crown since the nerve ending are very sensitive to stimulation.
Run your tongue up and down the length of his penis. You can also add a flavored lubricant for added wetness. Take his penis into your mouth with a swallowing motion and pump it back and forth to create rhythmic suction with your mouth.
Turn the heat up for an even better orgasm, add variation by using the tip of your tongue and firmly stroke his penis working your way down to his testicles. Stroke his penis while adding the stimulation of licking his testicles.
Be inventive, run circles around the head of his penis. Alternate your stoking technique. Remember it's important to vary your sucking and stroking. His hip movements will let you know that he's enjoying it.
So, what are you going to do when he starts to climax? It's extremely important to decide this beforehand that way you're prepared. If you choose to swallow, then keep sucking with gusto showing him that its' still all about helping him achieve a better orgasm. If you choose not to swallow an alternative is to use an open-mouth technique that allows you to suck as he ejaculates, opening your mouth will allow his load to run down his penis-actually acting as a lubricant.
Ladies, now is the time to let him see what he's been missing?a better orgasm that will take him to the pinnacles of sexual pleasure. A better orgasm is not just about sex, it's about unleashing primal desires, wild fantasies?turning him on. Now that you've learned a terrific technique for giving him a little mouth action practice it-he will definitely be a willing participant.
Copyright 2005 ? E.J. Davis
E.J. Davis is a writer who firmly believes that the ultimate pleasure begins with a simple caress. She currently writes for a1-online-dating.com. Get more sizzling tips at: http://www.a1-online-dating.com