Hottest topic of the world no adult likes to miss. Each one desires the glimpse of sex in any form openly or secretly. Gives pleasure even during talks, read, experience, watch, dream and etc. Reason of enjoyment even during talks etc; is the ultimate pleasure involved in sexual act. This is an incitement gifted to all life creatures by nature to act for procreation.
Pleasure is derived by relief from release of seeds. Attraction of seeking pleasure forces us to act is among the most essential responsibilities towards the nature. Life forms would be least interested carrying such activities without pleasure or for human would have become the spiritual rite to perform. So the attraction of pleasure is an incitement that forces to carry this responsibility with best of best interest. Nature never wanted life form to escape from this responsibility thus introduced a taste named "Pleasure".
Each one is inclined to follow the procedure created by nature. Arousing pleasure is derived through reactions to the attraction of environment, is to activate functioning tools and contact pleasure is derived during release. Both types pleasure are mental but in different ways.
Environment is formed by incitement and submission for craving during matured periods. Or through books, talks, movies, medicines etc; is artificially created by human in order to derive as much as possible as human craving is more frequent than many of species. Human being more intelligent is more inclined towards seeking pleasure. Realization of the extreme ecstasy initiated human to find ways to optimize and lasting.
Vatsyana's Kamasutra is one of beginning towards exploration of methods. Many methods and research and developments gave understanding of reasons and remedies. Natural and artificial life too has an effect on sexual pleasure. Attaining best sexual pleasure depends on how life style, mental and physical health, age, environment and etc; of the persons is. Many traditional and other medicines are developed to overcome physical weakness which even aged gain to rejuvenate. Mental weakness is deplorable to them who fail to perform due to non reaction of brain and chemicals to activate orgasm.
In my opinion temporary mental health of depression is due to failures in professional life, ego hurt, stress, hectic and exhausting life schedule, high materialistic involvement is curable by change of environment after consulting doctors. Those in urban cities face this kind of situation commonly due to environmental and noise pollution, unsystematic life patterns, eating habits, overburdened functioning and etc. As I feel environmental pollution changes to complicate our body functioning and carry diseases by improper functioning results angriness, impatience, hurriedness and etc; are the root causes of many diseases, failure of sexual stimulation is one of them. Sexual act needs attentiveness and nothing should be in the mind except craving.
The final objective of sexual life is sexual pleasure. Sexual failure damages relationship, individuality, and grip over partner etc.
Sadashivan Nair
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