Let's dive right into these few paragraphs that have been reduced from 30+ pages. Do yourself a favor and read every word right now. After reading this you will discover that the key to increasing the frequency of sex you get is determined by how well you understand just 2 things.
And these are two things that you probably already know about. The only difference is your success and how well you benefit from this formula will be based on how well you act on these two things.
Keeping these two things in mind will allow you to dramatically increase the amount of
sex you get in a very short amount of time.
The formula always works, so if you want more sex, pay attention.
Before I reveal what it is, let's look at some super simple facts:
Fact #1: Having sex is fun.
Fact #2: Having more sex is more fun!
At any rate, the formula (or the components that will allow you to have high quality sex) is driven by two factors: Opportunity + Perception.
Sex = Perception + Opportunity (That's the formula!)
Do yourself a favor and remember this formula for the rest of your life. It's the simplest seduction formula on the planet that will ever be created. And as long as it is engrained into your mind, you will be changed forever.
Forgot about the hard-to-apply seduction techniques that are followed by a strong urge to practice it like hell.
Forget about long, hard-to-remember seduction techniques. I've seen them all. And every time I read these impossible-to-remember techniques I bust out laughing.
Forget about seduction techniques that are created from silly scripts that don't offer any success-driven understanding.
They say: "Tell her blab, blah, blah and she'll go crazy."
Most guys are intelligent enough to know that any success stemming from such methods is purely a result of having the confidence (or balls) to perform it. Realistically, you need more than confidence to execute seduction perfectly.
Sex = Perception + Opportunity
If you are already getting the amount of sex you want then by law you are meeting the requirements.
If you don't understand what that means, that's not a problem. It will be explained in great detail later.
Here's a quick story that is true.
About six years ago I became the number one salesman for a company. The top executives became so impressed with the sales records I was breaking that they made special trips to see me. When asked what I saying to the customers, I told them:
"...nothing special. I just focus on getting the customer to realize that it makes sense (perception) to buy what I am offering and then finding out if they have the money to buy or the time to buy (opportunity)."
Even though that response didn't impress them, it was simple and very effective.
In the seduction world the same rules apply.
The opportunity to allow sex to take place must be there. And she must perceive you as a person that is sexually desirable.
Before we look at getting that "lust-generating" perception -- which can be a very exciting process -- let's look at what it means to have an opportunity.
In simple terms, if you want to have sex with a female but there is no place to do it, then that means you don't have an opportunity to have sex with her.
You would think that this is obvious, but many guys get rejected for sex because they have no opportunity when they initiate (ask for) sex.
For example a guy initiates sex with his "neat-freak" female companion even though his room/apartment is messy. He has no idea that an opportunity to have sex doesn't exist.
An opportunity is simply a place, convenient time, suitable mindset, to have sex.
The reason why this seemingly obvious part of this simple equation is being spotlighted is because there are millions and millions of guys out there that aren't having sex just because they lack the opportunity. They haven't created an opportunity.
Just because you are willing (or you think there is an opportunity) doesn't mean that your partner is willing under the same conditions.
So as you can see, it is super simple to focus on finding out what her obstacles are so that you can remove them. And as a result, you will lengthen your opportunities to have sex - which is simply the potential to have sex.
Many guys have no concept of her personal distractions - the things that make her incapable of having sex. She may want to have sex with you, but she may not want to have sex in a messy room (for example). She may be desiring sex or at a minimum open to the idea one second, but not open to the idea of having sex a little bit later on when she is tired.
To maximize your opportunities, you need to REMOVE the obstacles that turn her off and then ADD the things that turn her on.
It would be good to initiate sex in a clean room.
It would be better to initiate sex in a clean room with candles or music playing (or whatever turns her on)
This seems painfully obvious.
But if you are not getting the amount of sex you want from her you are probably not satisfying the "opportunity" part of the formula on some scale.
Chances are she has told you to either: dress up, find a babysitter, play music, decorate the room, buy handcuffs, blah blah blah. These are things that create and maximize your opportunity.
If she is tired all the time, then a $5 bottle of vitamins could do the trick. Attack the problem. Create the opportunity.
Now that I have exhausted you with the "opportunity" portion I will now charge you up as we dive into the perception part of the equation. Being able to control her perceptions is undoubtedly exciting.
It's pure 100% fun.
And all it requires is that you get her to have the perception that you are sexually desirable. Your goal isn't to be the sexiest man on the planet. You just need to be sexually desirable to the female you want to have sex with at that time.
If you hate/despise yourself with a soul-blackening passion, that has nothing to do with this simple seduction formula. As long as she perceives you as sexually desirable she will be willing to have sex with you.
If she has that magical perception, then it doesn't matter if you think 99% of women would rather be gang-raped by a tribe of trolls than to have thoughts of having sex with you.
It's that simple.
And no I'm not referring to the evil sexually acts of trolls, I am talking about capturing and winning her perception.
You don't need long scripts.
You don't need to hypnotize her.
You don't even have to engage her imagination on a deep level.
When you think about the purpose (the bottom line) of doing the things that were just mentioned (and I'm not against them), then you will quickly have no choice but to realize that it is really about getting her to that point where she thinks (internalizes thoughts) that you are sexually desirable.
If you went up to a random female and you blurted out to her something bizarre like: "I don't like you. You are a dumb female." then in about 1.5 seconds she is going to get the perception that you are an asshole. Right?
I don't recommend doing this. But seriously, in a short among of time she is going to get an instant perception of you.
And even though it wasn't a favorable one, it still was an instant perception.
It may be that you are childish, rude or weird, but either way she will get an instant perception of you.
Did you have to use any complicated language patterns to get her to feel this way?
Was it necessary to put her into a deep trance in order for her to get the impression that you are rude jerk?
The same works for getting her to feel that you are sexually desirable.
Chances are she has told you what those ingredients are.
Your job is to keep increasing the intensity of the perception until it reaches the
And we'll refer to this level as the Rock Star Level.
Because all a Rock Star has to do is point to the bed and she'll jump on it shaking with desire with her panties dripping wet.
When these guys take a woman back stage, they don't have to use hypnotic scripts or
If you are trying to maximize the intensity of her sexual "perception" of you, then you are striving to reach this level (The Rock Star).
Let's examine the elements/ingredients of the Rock Star and see why he has so much
1. He is adored by many (high demand = high value)
2. He is scarce/rare (hard to get)
The main reason why women go crazy over the Rock Star is because all the other women want him plus he isn't easily accessible. A lot of his value comes from the fact that he is out of reach.
So if a female ever gets an opportunity to have sex with the Rock Star (and they are under the assumption that most women could not be with him even if they wanted to) they melt!
They lose control.
So in your world, all you need is for your woman to get the "combination of elements" that get you the right perception.
CR James is the author of the new seduction book Super Sex Power. The first seduction book designed around increasing your sexual value. You can get a FREE seduction report for a limited time by clicking this link: http://superhappysex.com