Has this ever happened to you? You're at a bar or nightclub
and you see this lovely lady across the way that you're
attracted to and dying to meet.
You keep watching her for a long time, waiting for the right
time and opportunity to approach her and meet her. You keep
pondering and stalling. This can go on even after an hour of
trying to get up your nerve to approach her. So, you keep procrastinating.
Well, guess what happens when you hesitate? I'm sure you've
heard of the expression, "You snooze, you lose!" What will
happen is before you know it she will get up and leave or even
worse, some other guy makes a move on her and beats you to the
punch.
You must never, never wait for the perfect opportunity to meet
single women you are attracted to and want to meet. You must
approach her right then and there without hesitation. Just
do it! Do it now! The more time you take to ponder your
decision as to when you should make your move, the more time
you will have to talk yourself out of it.
If you become a procrastinator when it comes to meeting and
approaching women, you will see one opportunity after another
lost to meet all those hot & sexy women you desire.
One of the biggest reasons I was always successful with women
was because of my "take action attitude." When I saw a woman
I'd like to meet I never hesitated. I never gave myself time
to think about whether I should approach her or not. I just
took action and did it. I had a "do it now" mentality.
With practice, you too can develop this mentality. When you
do, everything will come naturally. You will approach women immediately without hesitation. With this "can do" mentality
you will come across as confident in the eyes of women that
you approach. You know what you want and go after it. Trust
me guys, women just love confident men. Always remember this
fact and conduct yourself accordingly, to take advantage of
this girl-getting personality trait.
This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles
Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to
successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with
women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com -
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