Many wives cheat on their husbands. This could be due to the fact that the husband does not give much of his time to his wife. The husband is usually the bread winner in a family and spends most of his time at work. This is especially so when a husband is self-employed and works for himself. His time becomes more important to him to work as he needs to make money for the family to survive.
If your husband is a workaholic then your lives are even more at risk from your wife cheating on her husband. Sometimes the husband can become so engrossed in his work that it may seem to the wife that he is totally ignoring her. When she tries to tell him something he is only half listening and this is very frustrating for the wife. The wife ay become bored with her husband as she seeks his attention. The husband may not realise just how little attention ha has been giving his wife. A wife can resent this and hence start to look elsewhere for her needs.
Wives cheat on husband in many ways. Wives often have time on their hands when they do not work so they have the ideal opportunity to cheat on their husbands. Wives may use the excuse to go shopping to sneak off to cheat on their husbands. They may be purchasing goods using their husbands cash or credit cards. They may even be buying gifts with the husbands hard earned money for their lovers and not even give this a thought. Things may even escalate out of all proportion and what was once a small gift may turn into a rather large expensive gift especially if the husband does not keep tabs on the wives expenditure.
If you have a family then it is even easier to cheat on your husband as you can use the excuse that you need more money to fund a child's activity and whilst they are at school you are then free to go whenever and wherever you please to cheat on your husband. Cheating wives may not just cheat on their husbands by seeing one lover they may have several to keep them entertained. Once the wife has cheated on her husband and found that she can get attention elsewhere she is likely to roam further and often likes to be the centre of attentions at parties and flirt with whomever she can. Wives may even cheat behind their husbands back and even the husbands closest friends or brother can often be a prime target for a cheating wife.
Many wives cheat on their husbands to try and make their husbands jealous. This is a very dangerous situation as often when the husband finds out about his cheating wife he is absolutely furious and cannot understand why his wife has betrayed him as he has given her so much freedom to do and go as and where she pleases. Many wives expect their husbands to forgive and forget that they have strayed and cheated on their husbands. For some husbands this may be the case but for others they feel intimidated that their wives have cheated on them and do not wish to stay together any longer as the wife may keep cheating on them in the future. It must be remembered that many husbands take the view that once a cheating wife she will always be a cheating wife and they do not wish to share their wife with anyone and why should they!
Jenny Clair is the editor of Marriage-Divorce-Separation.com an article based web site exploring the human side of marriage breakdowns, divorce and separation situations.
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