If your Knight in shining armor still hasn't come galloping, don't worry. The right one will soon come through. Don't be in a rush and run the risk of ending up in the hands of the wrong man ? an undercover single man, the fake bachelor ? a married man.
Is your new man married but pretending to be single? He may seem like the best thing since sliced bread to you, but is he real, genuine, sincere? Is he telling you the truth about his situation? Has he told you that he is divorced or about to get a divorce? Well, if he hasn't, here are some clues to bust his underground moves. You can bet that your new guy is definitely married if:
?The number you can reach him on is just his cell phone.
?You have been dating for a month and you have never been to his house or apartment.
?He finds it difficult to spend the whole night at your home.
?You look real close at his ring finger, and where his ring is supposed to be is lighter than the rest of his ring finger.
?You seem to only easily reach him during the daytime, and all your calls go into his voice mail when you call him after 9:00pm. And if he does call you back later, he will either call you on his way to the store or somewhere outdoors.
?He has not introduced you to his family members as his girlfriend.
?He can't seem to go on vacation with you during the time his job gives him a vacation.
?When he gets calls on his cell phone in your presence, he has a tendency not to answer it, and tells you the person call is just a nut, or one of his crazy friends.
?If you go in his car and you find another woman's jewelry, he tells you it belongs to his sister or grandmother or niece.
?Keeps a very irregular schedule and just never seems to be home late at night when you call his home.
?He frequently breaks dates with you and tries to promise to make it up to you real soon.
?All his dates with you seem to be out of town and off the beaten path. If he takes you to a major city, he takes you to where both of you can easily get lost in the crowd.
?All your dates seem to be in the evening. If you call to ask if you could meet him for lunch at his job, he just finds excuses as to why he won't be able to have lunch with you at or around his job.
?He always wants you to pick him up around some office complex or shopping center where he will drop off his car and take yours to go wherever you want to go together.
Save yourself the pain and agony of discovering at the last minute that your "Mr. Nice Guy" belongs to another woman by being aware of thes clues.
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Steve Ubah is the author of Passion Keys ? A Woman's Ultimate Guide To Unlocking The Love In A Man's Heart. To find out how you can make your man fall madly in love with you, please visit http://www.smartwomansguide.com
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