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Tip # 1: Respect
Most people agree that one of the biggest pleasures in a relationship
is through mutual respect. Developing intimacy requires developing a
healthy respect for your mate. Remember what it was that drew you to
our partner in the first place. What makes him/her feel like “home” to
you? When you have these answers, treat them like mantras you repeat
silently throughout the day. Over time, it will become an unconscious
act. In those moments when you and your partner are not seeing eye-to-eye
-- and these happen for everyone -- the memory of why you are with him/her
will renew the respect you have.
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Tip # 2: Adult Sex Videos
Adult sex videos are a helpful method for spicing up your sex life.
Whether or not you have a partner, watching adult films can certainly
assist you in improving your skills as a lover, but many of the how-to
videos and DVDs are extremely educational from a scientific standpoint.
Many feature commentary by medical doctors and licensed sex therapists,
who offer invaluable knowledge about how the male and female body functions
during sex. In addition, you are often able to view real couples putting
lessons they learned into practice, which serves to demonstrate that
we are all capable of having satisfying sex lives.
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Tip # 3: Fellatio
Fellatio is the technical term for oral sex performed on a man. Its
root is from the Latin verb meaning “to suck.” For many men,
oral sex is a more intense experience than intercourse. This is due to
the concentration of stimulation to the penis by mouth, tongue, and hands.
Each man has different areas of concentrated sensitivity, so it’s
important for a man to communicate what is pleasurable to him during
oral sex. If he is not comfortable speaking out loud about his needs,
he should gently guide his lover either with his hands or let her know
when she’s doing the right thing by making some oral indication
such as telling her he likes what she’s doing or sometimes even
just a moan will send the message!
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Tip # 4: Prolonging Pleasure
As a general rule, the longer the stimulation, the larger the release.
This is true physically as well as mentally. In order to prolong pleasure
during lovemaking and prevent male orgasm from occurring too soon, it’s
important to start slowly. Even just talking to each other about the
sex you’d like to have is a turn-on, and can initiate arousal.
Once you begin to touch, you may wish to begin with a backrub or deep
kissing before moving to intercourse. Once you do begin making love,
you can also bring a man back from the brink of orgasm with a squeezing
technique. Just prior to his orgasm, put your thumb on one side of the
base of the penis and the tips of your index and middle fingers on the
other side, then squeeze.
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Tip # 5: Sensual Massage
Sexual technique is not always about doing super tricks in bed.
Much of lovemaking occurs before the act of intercourse even begins.
In part, knowing how to be a good lover means knowing how to touch. Sensual
massage is a wonderful way to connect to your partner, and to learn what
feels good to him/her. It is also a very bonding act. Three basic types
of massage can be practiced. There’s a general soothing massage,
where you simply use oils or lotion and gently rub your lover’s
body head to toe. In a body to body massage, you use your own body to
assist in the massage, sliding up and down his/he back, using hair, nails
or even playful bites. Some massage sessions may progress to masturbating
your partner as part of the rub-down. Pay attention to your partner’s
reactions as you massage or establish ahead of time what type of massage
you will give/receive so that both of you achieve the maximum pleasure.
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