I know God will not give me anything I can't handle. I
just wish that He didn't trust me so much. ~ Mother Teresa
When God calls you to do something, you can be sure
He will give you the means to see it through. Many times
it's not clear where the strength or resources will come
from, but if you look deep within yourself and follow His
guidance, you'll find what you need. That's how circumstances
have unfolded for Archie and Pauly Lawhorne since God put it
into their hearts to adopt a child.
At a time in their lives when baby strollers and diapers
are but a distance memory, (they already have three biological
daughters, ages 12, 13 and 14) they now find themselves in
a position they never imagined they would be in - that is,
completely immersed in the intricate details of adopting a
baby girl from China.
"The only explanation we have is that it is the miraculous
hand of God at work," says Archie, 42, a writer at a
Minneapolis public relations agency. "When you put your
trust completely in God, you'll often be surprised at the
positions He puts you in and the places He leads you."
The family initially looked at domestic adoption, but felt
they were being led in a different direction. While considering
various countries in which to adopt, they realized they had
a strong attraction to China.
Pauly reflects, "It was not one thing that we could identify
specifically, but rather just an overwhelming sense of knowing
that China was our choice. As we have come to learn more about
China, we feel positively certain about our decision."
One factor that reinforced their decision was reading about
the significant numbers of babies that are abandoned in China
every year, particularly baby girls. This situation has been
caused by a number of social, demographic and economic factors.
In some areas, a childless couple may find an abandoned child
on their doorstep. But more frequently, infants are abandoned
in public places where they will be found quickly, such as busy
streets, parks, railway stations or in front of public buildings.
There is no official government figure for the number of infants
abandoned annually in China, but U.S. experts in Chinese adoption
place the number in a range of 500,000 to 800,000 abandonments
annually. In recent years, China has allowed its orphans to be
made available for adoption internationally. While the numbers
of such adopted orphans has been growing, it still represents
only a small percentage of the number of children abandoned
annually.
While Archie and Pauly knew they were following God's direction,
they weren't sure if they had the patience and emotional
discipline to endure the administrative gymnastics and extensive
paperwork that's required for approval - followed by a year-long
waiting process. What's more, international adoptions can involve
a significant financial cost. Depending on the country, the cost
to complete the entire process can range from $25,000 to $40,000
dollars.
While the couple knew they were on the right path, they weren't
quite sure where the financial resources where going to come from.
That's when they began to think about fundraising ideas. Having
done some previous research and extensive reading on the benefits
of positive thinking, they decided to look deeper into the idea
of how our thoughts and beliefs can affect our physical health,
our relationships, our job performance, our self-esteem, and even
our moods.
What they discovered was that these beliefs, usually subconscious,
are the cumulative effect of lifelong "programming," and represent
a powerful influence on our behavior.
They then wondered whether any of these concepts have ever been
applied within the realm of Christianity and the beliefs and thoughts
that accompany a strong faith in God. Archie explains, "In his book,
Victory Over The Darkness, Neil Anderson talks about how important
is for Christians to see themselves the way God sees them. When you
change the way you think about how God sees you, you are better
positioned to make lasting behavioral and spiritual changes in your
life. That's because our beliefs influence behavior, our actions,
and even our identity. We become a living example of the principles
that we think, believe and practice."
They knew how powerful meditating on God's word could be, but what
if these words were put into an audio format where they could be
effortless instilled into your subconscious mind? That's how the
idea for the "Faith In Focus" audio CD was born. This unique audio
CD uses simple, faith-inspiring words adapted directly from the Holy
Scriptures that help you change your actual thought processes and
reinforce your beliefs about how God sees you and who you really
are - a precious and valued member of God's family.
"Whether you are struggling with a lack of energy that accompanies
a bad day, or you're depressed and frustrated with your lack of
progress in your spiritual life, the first thing to do is to examine
your core beliefs," Archie said. "Often, the reason you may feel
depressed or anxious is because you are thinking depressing or
anxious thoughts."
When the power of God touches your life, you begin to change from
the inside out. But for God to make these changes, you must cooperate
with Him. He will not force the changes on you. You have free-will
and must make a decision. This is done by replacing the way you
used to think with the truth of God's Word. By meditating on, and
absorbing the Word of God, you'll begin to develop godly thinking.
After creating the CD, they handed them out to friends and family
and members of their small group at their local church.
"The response has been tremendous," Archie said. "That's when we
knew we had hit on something unique. The inspirational feedback
and powerful results from those who listened to the Faith in Focus
program confirmed our original assumptions."
While God has put them in a challenging position, He also is
providing them with the resources they needed to complete the task.
What's marvelous about how God works is that He is showing them
How to get what they need in a way that brings honor and glory to
Him. The couple is currently about halfway through the lengthy
adoption process and they are trusting that God has already paved
the way; they're just following the path He has already opened.
"Since we made our decision to adopt a baby girl from China, we
have this inner peace knowing we are doing the right thing," Pauly
said. "There is also a feeling now that our family will not be
complete until we bring her home. We can not wait to meet her."
The couple has developed a Web site and has begun offering the CD
for sale to raise money for their adoption. To make a donation to
help them in their quest or to order a copy of the "Faith In Focus"
CD, visit: http://www.purposedrivenfaith.com